It’s a New Year. Ready, set…rest. Wait what? In the midst of resolutions and goals while living in a non-stop world we have to remember that we are made for rest. Not just resting our bodies while scrolling, streaming, or lounging, but real, lasting peace and rest in our lives.
First Things First
But what is rest anyways? Rest isn’t just a thing we need when we’re tired, it’s the foundation of our lives. For around eight hours a day, we are “unproductive” while we sleep. Even outside of sleep we hunger for rest, downtime, and time to just be. If we don’t have it, our lives become stressful and burdensome. To live a good and balanced life we need to rest which involves refreshing, re-energizing, and reviewing what is going on in our lives. Rest is essential to live well.
In the Beginning
In Genesis we hear that rest isn’t just a good thing, it’s the conclusion of God’s work. Genesis tells us that he rested on the seventh day from all his work which he had done. But God doesn’t get tired, God doesn’t need rest. So why does God emphasize rest so much? God reminds us that we are called to stop, and just be. God rests because He is rest itself. God is being and He calls us to the Sabbath rest, where we are truly with Him and the peace He offers us.
Don’t Do, Just Be
God wants to give us rest and He desires to pour out His peace into our lives at all times. God reminds us that we are called to stop and simply be with Him as a loving Father. This is the foundation of true rest. We are made to be with God as His beloved sons and daughters. When we take time to intentionally do this we find rest. So what does this look like? Here are a few tips to cultivate your rest as you begin this new year:
Become child-like again
As Jesus reminds us, we are called to look upon our lives with a child-like awe and wonder. We can ask God everyday what He wants to speak to us as we go for a walk in nature, spend time with friends and family, listen to the daily Gospel, watch our favorite show, or go to soccer practice. We can intentionally and mindfully view all of God’s creation as a gift.
Pray unceasingly
We can invite God into school work, sports, relationships, projects, and can be open to what God wants to share with us through these areas of our lives. We can remember that God made us to use our bodies and our minds, and He made us for relationships. We can invite Him into these areas because they are all a part of His design.
Time to ‘do’ nothing
We live in a busy, demanding world! We often need to safeguard our time to rest, whether that is sleep, quiet prayer, and yes, even lounging and watching TV. We need a balance with all that we do and are called to intentionally plan time to rest and chill in our lives amidst busy schedules.
Source and Summit
Lastly, we ultimately find rest in God through celebrating the Eucharist which is the source and summit of our faith where we become one with Christ. We find true rest and peace when we prioritize receiving Jesus in the Word and the Eucharist every week and attend the sacraments.
In this new year of resolutions, find time to just “be” with God. Rest doesn’t mean that our responsibilities or anxieties totally melt away, but it does mean that we can look at our lives with a childlike awe and wonder and spend real time with the Father in all that we do.
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